Bad Habbits
I’ve been thinking about this since the other day when my sister said something to me while the look on her face said “wtf you’re high!” I 110% was not high. My first though was I was kind of offended, I mean I’ve put in about 26 months of sobriety. Then I though, my family will never know that for sure because in the past I have lied to them about being sober.. So I have officially come to terms with the fact that everyday of this new life of mine will not only be a struggle to keep my sobriety, but I will also have to constantly convince and prove to my family that I am strong in my recovery.
Now, back to habits. When using meth, especially for long periods of time, your body develops different movements, sounds, ticks, facial movements, etc.
I used for the most part of 8 years so I obviously developed a few things. The first thing I noticed was I would constantly be
wiggling my toes. There was one time I was doing this so uncontrollably all of my toes were blistered and raw at the end of my high.
Something else I did was smack my lips or make smacking sounds. I can only assume this happened because my body was thirsty and I was failing to stay hydrated. This was the one thing my sister ALWAYS pointed out when I was using.
The third thing I noticed about my self definitely developed toward the end of my using days, which is when I was using the heaviest. I would make these weird movements with my mouth. The kind of thing that when I see someone doing I think to myself, “they are either high or have used sometime in their past”
To this day, even with more than 2 years sober, I’ll catch myself doing these and sometimes I really have to think about not doing them. Every time my husband watches me while I’m doing the dishes he says “Sarah, stop with the tweaker face” and I get all butt hurt bc it’s something I can’t really control unless I’m thinking about it. I don’t really know if these habits/ticks will ever go away completely.. I’m really hoping that the longer I’m sober the less and less these things will be effecting my life.
Lots of love,
Sarah